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Separate signal from longing
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You keep replaying mixed signals.
You know better, but still feel pulled in.
You want language for what happened.
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Please Don't Say You Love Me
The book that begins the untangling: modern dating, validation, ghosting, boundaries, and the courage to choose more consciously.
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